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Reader

If it wasn’t obvious from some of my emails, I believe that our society’s “good spouse,” “good worker,” “good child,” templates need to be burnt to the ground.

Where have these come from?

Our well-meaning, unknowing….

parents

educators

religious guides

[insert your favorite patriarchy torchbearer here]

Or straight-up evil systems in the government and corporate America — praising:

“You’re such a hard worker.”

“What you give, you get.”

“Time heals all wounds.”

I call bullshit.

These insidious platitudes keep us shame-filled, subservient, and small.

And then there’s the midlife crisis.

Maybe you don’t want to run off and buy a Porsche.

But would you say no to the frequency of ARRIVAL that rings through your body when you close the door of a car like this?

Maybe plastic surgery isn’t your style.

But wouldn’t you love to know you're glowing, from the inside out?

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We side-eye the hallmarks of a “midlife crisis” like they're shameful.

Yet we’re all seeking the feelings of enoughness, self-worth, and pride that material things can provide.

Until they don’t.

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I’m here to help us….

RECLAIM

REFRAME

REWIRE

… what we call a “midlife crisis” – as the greatest sign of sanity there is.

(read that again)

Because since our baby years?

We’ve steeped in a tea that robs us of our sovereignty, aliveness, and brilliance.

Maybe a blood-curdling scream tries to work its way up your throat as you watch another "overzealous" adult claim what you yearn for?

… that's nothing but your Soul trying to jolt you out of premature decay.

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It might be inconvenient.

It might feel inappropriate.

But really?

It’s the sanest thing you’ve felt in years (maybe even decades).

Sure – you can try to reason it away.

This something inside of us that's staging a rightful jailbreak.

This something inside of us about to bend metal with our called-for rage.

This something inside of us that's willing to break skin and bleed — as a confirmation of aliveness.

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If you’re anything like my clients — successful but feeling misplaced, decidedly “okay” but sensing a dysmorphia with their daily reality (“how is this my life?”)…

… you’re:

1. Leading a sparkly existence on paper – but an unruly hollowness expands inside of you the moment you force yourself away from the screens.

2. Listening to a faceless voice in your head, that says: “Your life is beautiful. You should be grateful. Why on earth would you want anything else?”

3. Pushing down a gut-wrenching and uncomfortable call to something more, something different, as it visits in the moments in between — like the shower, your closet, the bathroom.

4. Wrestling with your readiness to tear apart the societal expectations about “age-appropriate” behavior and life stages.

5. Feeling an ache attached to the status quo. It’s finally, finally crescendoed to the point where it’s greater than your fear of upsetting those dear to you — in the name of freedom.

6. But then you look at your lovely home, your people, the balance and comfort you’ve attained. And fear rushes in, drowning your desires — a fear that you’ll need to incinerate everything you’ve built so far, in order to turn you life back on. So you stay in the box. Muted. Smaller.

Recognize yourself, Reader ?

This is where some of you reading might want to close your tab. Power off. You’ve had too much screentime anyway…

OR, you keep reading and your life might change forever. Because I have something to share with you…

Explosive pleasure – but at first… feeling a little less abandoned.

Deep satisfaction – but at first… a thawing of the numbness inside yourself.

Authentic living – but at first… the courage to say “I’m not perfectly fine”.

That’s what my clients have reported.

We work together to build a new kind of safety — akin to a parachute, keeping you alive and well as you free fall into the most exhilarating terror/anticipation/excitement there is.

The feeling that comes when you meet yourself. At last.

Pure medicine for your Soul.

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If you feel activated by this email, know this.

I’m tapping into another layer of depth in my coaching and I’ve made space to partner with one person this year who is ready to expand to the point where their life explodes with richness and meaning...

...and it might just not be recognizable a few years from now.

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This way of working together would grant you access to deeply partnered private and confidential coaching with me, on demand, as well as Iris Sessions that are hand-plucked from my library of work, to meet you exactly where you are. I’m also throwing in a deep dive on your Human Design, which assists greatly.

Calls as needed.

It’s a 9-month trajectory with breaks during the summer and winter holidays.

$2,888/mo x9

$25,000 PIF

5% donated to Charity:Water, a fundraiser aiding the 1.1 billion people without clean water to drink, or another charity of our mutual choosing.

If this is meant for you and you have the financial means - hit reply and let’s unearth the magic that's meant for you.

XO,

Carolyn

P.S. Already a client and want to upgrade? You know where to find me ;)

P.P.S. Would someone dear to you love to work with me in this way? Forward away.